This week...
...we took the kiddos to My FroYo after Family Home Evening. It was partly a reward for keeping the family room so clean all week long and partly because we had a gift certificate that we needed to sue. :) For our lesson, we used the poem Pockets Full of Rocks from the Friend about the young boy, Malcolm Tent, who picks up rocks to remember the bad things that happen to him. When he finally realizes what that is doing to him inside and out, he takes all the rocks and makes a rock garden to remember the good people do instead. I had Paul collect some rocks from outside and I had them slip them into their pockets and socks to get an idea of how uncomfortable that would be. Then we used fun markers to write on paper rocks - one bad thing to let go and one good thing to put in our rock garden. They paid attention and it was quick and fun.
Here's the poem and the link (http://www.lds.org/friend/2014/02/pockets-full-of-rocks?lang=eng):
...Emma participated in the variety show at her school. I was very proud of her for trying out, making the cut, and practicing during recess time to be a part of the show. Here's my instagram of the group and the caption i wrote: "I have to post this one, even though it's several hours later. Emma was part of the variety show at her school today playing The Entertainer on the piano. She got so nervous that she almost didn't go through with it. I went up with her and told her not to pay attention to everyone there watching. She did it! She was so nervous, but she did it! The applause seemed louder somehow when she finished and we walked back to our seats." My friend Heidi commented, "Good job Emma! I was always nervous for recitals and performances and games." Our friend Lucy Lowe commented, " I would have loved to hear her play The Entertainer!!! Emma is so talented!" I was so proud of Emma for being nervous and doing it anyway. Her teacher told her that too. Mrs. Vandervert said that it's almost a greater victory to be at the brink of turning back and continuing on. Everyone there was pulling for her and applauded her for her bravery.
...we got SNOW! I couldn't believe it to begin with. I posted a wimpy snow picture on instagram thinking that was all the snow we would get.
Then the elements proved me wrong. We got dumped on. The kids were ecstatic. Claire went out immediately after getting home from school to play in it with our neighbors/friends the Bagleys. Emma was actually excited to take the garbage out so she could walk in it. Right before bedtime, Emma and I had shoveled Jason's parking spot so it wouldn't be so bad when he got home from work the next morning. (Poor guy was out all night in the blustery stuff.) We had a great time.
She was more than happy and willing to stay up past her bed time to get this done for Dad.
I went out to help her so that it would go faster. Then we both needed to change our pajamas before bed.
Emma was being silly with the snow - throwing it up in the air and on her head.
And she couldn't come back in until she had done one of these.
Emma was bringing in the Claire's scooter and slipped on the fresh snow covered sidewalk. She was super excited to find that she'd made a cool sign in the snow. I colored it red for effect. Oooo!
...we played in the snow, bought boots, and played in the snow some more! The kids were super excited. Me? Not so much. We had a two hour delay on Friday so I ran down to Walmart to see what kind of selection they had. Luckily, I found some good ones and I was in and out pretty quick. They enjoyed their extra time to play in the snow and I was glad to send them to school with warm footwear.
Emma and Paul worked on an igloo together.
...I ran in to the library in search of one book. I didn't have much time. I came out with five in about as many minutes. It was great!
I found the first two books of a new series by Lemony Snicket - the author of A Series Of Unfortunate Events - called All The Wrong Questions. The title itself is so fun. I can't wait to find out what they are like. Then I found The Extraordinary Education Of Nicholas Benedict. If you've read, The Mysterious Benedict Society, you might enjoy this one. I'll let you know once I've read it. ;) I picked up The Dark by Lemony Snicket just to see what it's like. Then I checked on book two of the Septimus Heap series, Flyte, written by Angie Sage, so I could read with Emma. She was reading the first book for school so that she could take an AR test on it and get her monthly required points last month. Her teacher gave them all an extension over the weekend on the deadline because they'd had the wax museum. She didn't read Friday. She didn't read much Saturday. She showed me Saturday night, at bedtime, that she had just over half of the 578 page book left to read and told me that she was feeling nervous about it. Yeah, I would say so. I reassured her that we would work on it the next day, even though it was Sunday, and gave a small lecture on using her time more wisely. So after the Superbowl , Go Seahawks!, I started reading out loud to Emma. I read fast, hardly stopping to take a breath or swallow my spit. I barely let her give me the back story when I came to things I didn't understand, and just plowed on through. Luckily, the pages were short and it was a good read. Even with my accelerated pace of reading, we could finish no earlier than 11:40 pm. Youser! We both went to bed tired, but feeling great. She scored a whopping 18/18 on her AR test and I was hooked for the next book in the series. The only hang up is that she gets ahead of me at school. Thus the need for me to check out my own copy. This way I can keep up. ;) There you go! You got the long of a short list of books.
Paul is super excited to go be with other boys and get to do some hands on boy-type activities. Unfortunately, his leader is new and things weren't as active as we both were anticipating. Hopefully, things will pick up for Paul's sake. We have been reviewing things at home though - working on the cub scout promise, scout motto, scout sign, etc. He is eating it up. And...I find that scouting is a good engine for me to discuss him having a better attitude, being kinder to his siblings, and trying harder to help others. Paul has always had a strong sense of what is right and a desire to do it just the way he's been told. It was exciting to bolster him as I related this to him when we were talking about the motto - Do your Best - and the sign - help others and obey. Friday morning, after the big snow and as they were getting ready to go out to the bus, we were digging out warmer gloves for everyone. Sadly, my stockpile of warm gear is dwindling because the kids have grown and we haven't needed anything for so long. It came down to Paul giving Emma back her warm gloves and him taking a slightly smaller pair that would fit him but not Emma. He didn't want to and he shed a few tears, but there was no fit throwing; no anger. I pointed out that he was serving his sister by being willing to switch so that she could be warm. I said, "That's what scouting is all about - helping other people."
...Lainey took a sudden turn for the worst and threw up Thursday after preschool. At least she made it all week. Now we can hunker down for the weekend and get her feeling better. She went from playing with Pax, to feeling wiped out pretty quickly. She hasn't quite mastered the use of the bowl like Benjamin. Cleaning up after him when he was recently sick was truly not that bad. He made it in the bowl or on his bed sheets (that were easy to change) every time. For Lainey, we promptly made a bed on the floor and kept the bowl handy anyway.
Instagram of happy kids - Lainey with Thursday buddy Paxton
Instagram of sleepy Lainey with upset tummy
...Paul got sick. He was apparently the next one in line after Lainey. Fortunately, it did not last for days on end and he was back to playing in no time.
...I took Ben back for his ear infection follow up and had Lainey's eyes checked as well. She had the goops and I wanted something for it. We're becoming regulars at that office, let me tell you.
...I caught this for instagram. Caption: "Ben is to sitting on the table as cold is to winter; as cozy is to blankets; as addictive is to chocolate...you get the idea." I can not count on two hands the number of times I have to tell Benjamin to get off the table. He loves it.
...we watched Lainey's beanstalk shoot up. She carried it upstairs one night and ended up leaving it in the bathroom overnight. It stays very warm in there because it's such a small room and no windows. That little beanstalk wasted no time in shooting up several more inches.
...I marvel at the wonderful new Come, Follow Me curriculum for the youth of our church. It truly is an amazing program of teaching and learning. It's life changing. I love studying the outlines and writing things down that stand out to me, techniques and insights. I love to think of my girls and what I can prepare that will help them. I love to evaluate how my activities and lessons actually go - what worked and what didn't. (This self evaluation part is new this year. Criticism can be hard to take, but I thought if it was coming from me I have less to fear in trying to be a better teacher/facilitator.)
Instagram of my notes and Wednesday mutual evaluation. I had my Beehives make a Smash journal page and write down something they learned from last year and something they want to learn this year - a sort of spiritual goal. I showed a video from the course intro videos and led a discussion on the invitations to act and their responsibility to follow through when they receive a challenge during our lessons on Sunday. It went so smoothly. They knew that they weren't doing the best they could to follow through and my admonition to do better was well received. I shared this printout with them for their journals. They have to change to accept the challenge, but accepting the challenge will change them as they grow spiritually and come unto Christ.
(I saw this on facebook and I redid it because I didn't like the colors.)





































